As it does not have nobody for close for corrigiz them in its imperfect logic, the shy ones if abandon to the flavor of its feelings and erroneous thoughts and many hiperdimensionados times. It has studies that they show that, especially, shy adolescents if feel pressured by the colleagues more to consume adolescent alcohol and drugs of what not shy. Moreover, because of the desinibidor effect of the alcohol and of some drugs, some people can appeal to such substances to facilitate its social intermeshing. With the drawn out use of such substances, its users can become dependents of the same ones. He is sufficiently common to confuse the shyness with the introversion, but the people introverts are not necessarily shy. They possess the conversational abilities and auto-they esteem necessary to have success in the interaction with other people, but simply they opt to being alone. These inside find of the solitude a shelter and they do not become anxious, or still, autocrticas when they are in company of the other people. The anxiety on the defeatist performance, inhibition and thoughts, so common in the shy people, does not occur in the introverts.
The shy ones, on the other hand, want desesperadamente that they notice them to the others they accept and them, but seem that they lack the abilities to them essential to manage the interactions social. The shyness is not a social illness, as they are the social phobia or the upheaval of evitativa personality (a listed psicopatolgico problem in one of our International Codes of Doctor-psychological Illnesses). These illnesses intervene with the daily one of the people and generally the people who only suffer of them recoup the intervention base malaise from the shyness and the person if it retracts front the social interactions. what it can explain this? Many times a happened psychological blockade in infancy, as abuses (sexual/moral), constaints, losses of next people/dear, rejection, fear, abandonment, lack of affection, affection, etc.