The children are presented in the couple relationship as a condition that a number of changes in the context of the couple, from the physical space, schedules, hours of sleep, expenditures and the distribution of money unchanged. Also the time and interest. The patterns and forms of representation also suffer psychological transformations, we went from being the couple, "you and me", if one of us. We become fathers or mothers of a child who comes to give a different dynamic to the relationship as a couple. Now the newest member of the family is all psychological and emotional place of the couple, for that reason, I use the term "appear" appear in the physical, psychological and emotional partner. The newest member of the couple, now family or triad, becomes dominated the talks, they ate, if not, if he slept more, less, lack of sleep are not left waiting.
The change in relaxation times change … the night feeding is exhausting, do not provide in No way, it is positive or negative, it happens, as the "third" in the couple has specific needs that should be covered, regardless of the conditions of adults, be it father or mother. Now, the new family member places demands and needs that have to cover regardless of whether we are tired, depressed, happy or we have many things to do … the baby is hungry and needs to eat … no matter what I want or need, or what the couple wants or desires …